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MaiLuk

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There is a Sweedish MD whom hangs out on another board and recommends Testosterone. Claims that we generally don't need Viagra but an extra dose of testo.. He gets a shot a few days before his trip and goes like mad man.

Things happen a little slower for me so I just make sure that

there is plenty of foreplay. I've pool acces from my usual hotel and am about 30m from the public walk way making it a perfect place to get things going. I pick up a few string bikinis and offer the Darling a swim suit as part of the tip. A Bacardi (Bak-a-dee) or two and getting the swin suits off usually gets things in the mood. I am a bit nuts over a good soapy. I had pruchased a double header at Christings in Patong and got a three round event. You are paying the bills so get you fun. I often discuss the menu of events while chatting at the bar!

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I have read the preceeding replies and have had most of the difficulties you and others have mentioned. I am 57 and at one point a year or so ago I began to be reluctant to take a BG because I was afraid I would be embarrassed because I would lose my hardon or just not be able to come.

 

Later, I met a beautiful GTG and had a romantic relationship. She was much younger than I am (of course, but I still haven't been around LOS enough to get used to the idea that beautiful young girls are fine being with old guys) and of course she was beautiful and I thought I loved her. Anyway, prior to meeting her I could come 1 or at most 2 times in one day and would often then need to take the next day off. But, with this girl, I would have so much desire and be so excited that all of a sudden my physical and mental problems disappeared. First, I came 4 times in one day. Then I did it again 2 days later. Over 5 days I came 14 times.

 

Unfortunately this GTG turned out to be not so G after all (not a professional but definitely scheming for money and lying). So, I found myself back to my prior situation.

 

In fact, went to Pattaya for a 3 day weekend I could only come 1 time - I was embarrassed. But, I was still mentally into the one I was so hot over. Eventually, things went back to normal. That is, sometimes I can come 2 times, sometimes not at all. Depends upon whether or not I get hot over the girl. Did have one situation with an extremely thin girl recently. Don't know why, but I got really hot over her and came 3 times.

 

I should add that I have a sensitivity problem (not sure how much of this is in my head) and often have to finish by hand (the girls or mine) but not always - again, depends upon my head.

 

Anyway, this is my experience. Sounds like yours but having had the experience with the one with whom I came 4 times, I know a lot depends upon how excited I get (and if I have a BG who I can see just wants me to finish, get her money and get out of here - I lose mental interest no matter how beautiful she is).

 

On the subject of testosterone, there is something called andros... don't remember the exact name but someone posted about it recently on this board. Anyway, this is a precursor (think that the term) of testosterone. and supposedly helps one produce testosterone naturally thus avoiding the problems OH mentioned. I had read a book about this a couple of years ago but it was not available that I could find in US. But, I think you can pick it up in LOS and I may check it out.

 

In the morning when testosterone levels are naturally highest, I have the best sex. Thus, my interest.

 

Anyway, best of luck to you.

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I had a similar problem...went to a specialist in the UK who did a load of tests and discovered that my testosterone level was VERY low - about equivalent to a 90 year old guy!

 

Apparently it can be a hereditary thing, and does not affect your ability to father kids (I have 3 kids back in the UK).

 

Since 2003 I have testosterone implants every 6 months in my hip muscle which slowly release testosterone over the next few months.

 

The results are very good, with much-increased libido and a general increase in upper-body muscle.

 

You do need to have regular checks because this treatment can lead to an increased risk of prostate cancer (so it's a finger up the bum check every 6 months...)

 

The downside of low testosterone levels is zilch libido and an increased risk of brittle-bone desease in latter years...

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Hi all:

 

Thanks for all the replies. Was intrigued by the suggestion that I may be rebelling against casual sex. As usual with issues like these things are not black and white.

 

I finished quite a few times during my trip to LOS, as well as failed to finish. (this *should* eliminate the possibility of a physical problem) Its the high incidence of not being able to come that had me wondering.

 

When i have had a gf/ intimate partner, I found myself fantasizing about other girls when we had sex :hubba: so who knows.

 

Masturbation? No changes (unless switching from rt hand to left counts) and still do it too much of course.

 

HT: Yes that girl left a bite in me and its possible it shows up as me not able to come sometimes. Bet if i fucked her now tho, i wouldn't finish with her either ::

 

Testosterone hip implants - never heard of that and something to look at for general health reasons I would think. Would like to hear more about that. The fact is i get horny very often and I would not even want to increase my horniness, just my ability to blow a load. Doesn't testestorone shrink your wangus or is that just from rumor mongers

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MailLuk, the point about the testosterone implants is that they are not meant to increase your testosterone level above the norm for your age. Rather, they are used to correct a hormone deficiency.

 

As for it shrivelling your dick, I would be happy to send you a foto of my large and growing member... (Hang on, that foto is only for my GF :D)

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I've heard of something called "sexual burnout".Basically you've tried everything sexually you've ever wanted to do and are just plain bored with it.I don't know if this phenomena actually exists or wether its BS?

I've also heard that to much testorone can make one very aggressive and violent but then again I don't know as I'm not a scientist.

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