Mr Pickles Posted September 15, 2005 Report Share Posted September 15, 2005 What traits do you look for in a woman that makes you believe that she says she going to deliver on all the promises she makes to you in the bar? I don't do a lot of heavy negoations in the bar before I leave with her but am wondering if I'm shooting myself in the foot for not doing so. I've recently had a slew of chicks that promised the world, BBBJ, Back Door, Photos, Showering Together and multiple Boinks only to prove to be a complete dud when I got them home. If I do it buy the numbers and go throught the check list before I bar fine her I feel it really puts a crimp on the nights acitivities. If I get her in bed and then have to start begging for what I want that is also a total turn off. What gives... What do you look for in a girl that convinces you that she may be half of what she says she's going to be. I've been with way to many dead fishes of late.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The_Munchmaster Posted September 15, 2005 Report Share Posted September 15, 2005 Can't help. I don't think I have ever discussed with a girl what we are going to do when we get back to my hotel or, when I'm in Dubai, my apartment. If I like her I take the chance. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chilli13 Posted September 15, 2005 Report Share Posted September 15, 2005 its what they call intuition - some people have it others lack it big time - torney - Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Drronin Posted September 15, 2005 Report Share Posted September 15, 2005 Yup - intuition and experience - my first few years going to Thailand I had a lot of duds - probably 50% that didn't want to do a thing back in the room except turn off the lights and spread their legs. The last few years that has been a real rarity - and I have wondered whether its me or whether the new generation of Thai women are just a lot more willing to do stuff then they were 10 years ago - exposure to Western culture/pornography? - can't think of the last time I didn't get a lengthy bbbj and I rarely check beforehand. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
limbo Posted September 15, 2005 Report Share Posted September 15, 2005 If they don't deliver what they promised, kick them out with no pay. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dumsoda Posted September 15, 2005 Report Share Posted September 15, 2005 I always try and avoid the ..."in your face, hard sell, actresses"...maybe it's just me, but over the years, have had more duds from this area than I care to remember. Nothing worse than having your own little horny lap dance teaser grind you into an "excited frenzy", only to turn into Miss Starfish once back in the room......Thanks, but no thanks. These days I tend to be guided by advice from mamas' (once I get to know them)...believe spending my "marketing budget" on buying drinks for mamas'......returns long term dividends that way exceed outlays JMHO. Especially as my free time now is both limited and only occasional Personally, I tend to like the slightly "outwardly shy" candidates. Often much more co-operative later and more into the GFE (from my "limited" experiences) Once past the initial screening by mama, I tend to spend some time "playing games"......testing reactions and trying to read Body Language....little things, like the way they respond to facial expressions, licking lips, poking out the tongue, joking, touchy/feelie shit........and I really like it when, after a few drinks the outward shyness starts to give way to a slighty cheeky semi aggressive/assertive attitude......Bingo......game on !!!! Works for me YMMV Chock dee Dumsoda :beer: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Torneyboy Posted September 15, 2005 Report Share Posted September 15, 2005 ib13 said:its what they call intuition - some people have it others lack it big time - torney - I got it....somewhere Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shygye Posted September 15, 2005 Report Share Posted September 15, 2005 The BGs I met never made me any promises. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nervous_Dog Posted September 15, 2005 Report Share Posted September 15, 2005 Dronnin, agree with you, I used to get lots of dud's, I think because I was a easy "mark" however now I am no where near as friendly, more business like, and the girls I take, stunners included all perform! I think they sometimes need to know in advance NOT to fool you. Seems mean, but it's abusiness out there! DOG Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
.. Posted September 15, 2005 Report Share Posted September 15, 2005 I kinda do the last part of what Dumsoda said. But if we are talking about gogo/beerbar/freelancer gals, then I think a lot of it is how much they like you. Chemistry. How much fun you are. How you treat them as a person. And like any woman, how much you warm 'em up beforehand. I never BF a gal the first time I meet her. Usually the 3rd or 4th time before I do. I enjoy flirting and teasing and find that this makes the gals give you the ultimate GFE. And I make sure they get their le petit mort same as me...it's part of the fun to me and they put more effort into sex when they know that. YMMV, but I am *very* rarely disappointed. And I hardly ever talk about what I want beforehand, unless it is the third hole and I make some kind of joking reference to it to gauge her reaction. But it is not a dealbreaker if she says no to that. When back in the room, just go with the flow and gently guide her to what you want. If you are looking for guaranteed performance and are impatient, hit a soapy massage parlor -- great performance is how the gals keep those plum jobs. Otherwise, if you do not cultivate the gals, it is a crap shoot. But to me the "chase" is part of the fun! Cheers, SD Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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