INTJ Posted July 14, 2007 Report Share Posted July 14, 2007 Hi, To my mind, this post from another site sums up the attraction of it all quite well. A girl had found she-male porn on her boyfriends computer and was asking if that made him gay :- "What's up with the she-male thing? It's like this: straight boys love tits. Straight boys also love cock. In most cases straight boys are enamored of their own cocks exclusively, and there's nothing queer about that. But for a tiny minority of straight guys, their love of cock extends to other cocks. This is most commonly expressed by a taste for 'straight' porn that prominently displays cock. Most straight guys who enjoy cock in their porn identify with the other mens cocks, enjoying the thrill of living vicariously through them. But a thin slice of these straight guys actually lusts after cocks, just the dicks, however, not the dudes. An even thinner slice of this already thin slice of the straight-guy pie actively longs for dick other than their own, but they're straight, you see, and they don't want to mess around with an actual dude, just a cock. And thats where she-males come in. They've got dicks, their dicks are attached to babes, and some cock-hungry straight boys will pay good money for the pleasure of their company. So is your boyfriend gay? No, he's not. I don't know any gay men who lust after she-males; that obsession is an exclusively straight-identified-male-with-ahunger-for-cock phenomenon. His shemale obsession technically disqualifies him from the 100 percent straight category, but it doesn't necessarily make him bi or gay, just a touch queer." Cheers, INTJ. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
was_usvirgin Posted July 14, 2007 Report Share Posted July 14, 2007 You make an intelligent argument, but I don't agree with you, based solely on my own sexuality or, at least, my knowledge of it. Any guy who wants to suck a dick or have one up his ass is gay, IMHO, whether the guy with the dick has tits or not. Post-ops *might* be another story, but being fond of other people's dicks is almost indisputably gay. I have no issues with gay people, I just don't agree with the 'grey area' of sexuality that people try to create because of the third gender. Edit: I noticed that you re-posted something and it was not your own words. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bangkoktraveler Posted July 14, 2007 Report Share Posted July 14, 2007 I thought it was alresdy decided that you are not gay if the ladyboy is dressed like a lady. If she dresses like a man, you are gay. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cavanami Posted July 14, 2007 Report Share Posted July 14, 2007 IMO, if a "lady" has a "handle" and you bop it, then it is gay. Simple? Chick with a dick, is gay. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
INTJ Posted July 15, 2007 Report Share Posted July 15, 2007 Why does it matter so much to so many if this is "gay" ? I totally fail to see what can be gained by pigeon-holing other peoples sexuality ? I used to be on this band-wagon 'til I realised I was scared and intimidated by ladyboys. Anyway, good to know there are so many red blooded heteros out there. INTJ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Old Hippie Posted July 16, 2007 Report Share Posted July 16, 2007 Back again? This person you quote is way off in their assessment...tons of fetishes among gays, and the fem/woman's clothing is just one of them. As for why people are concerned about other people's sexuality? because we were asked. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
INTJ Posted July 16, 2007 Report Share Posted July 16, 2007 OH, "Back again ?" Haven't been anywhere. Nice to see you remember me though. INTJ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Old Hippie Posted July 16, 2007 Report Share Posted July 16, 2007 I just ment I haven't seen you post in a while, Since 03/11/2006 05:31. I found your posts informative and a good stimulant to discussions. So, Welcome back. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PhilAnders Posted July 17, 2007 Report Share Posted July 17, 2007 Why does it matter so much to so many if this is "gay" ? I totally fail to see what can be gained by pigeon-holing INTJ pigeon-holing is only gay if the pigeon has a penis. case closed. :smirk: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
frede Posted August 10, 2007 Report Share Posted August 10, 2007 Wow...what a long thread that became! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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