bust Posted September 3, 2007 Report Share Posted September 3, 2007 Someone sent me this knowing that most the girls I see here and in LOS are well below my age. Probably a bit generalized but interesting perspective all the same. WOW could have been written about me ...except for the grey hair and wrinkles. You might have some grey in your hair and a wrinkle or two, but you can still win a younger woman's heart. Given a choice between George Clooney and Prince William - two men on every most-eligible-bachelor list worldwide - I'd choose 42 year-old Clooney, pants down, over the prince who's exactly half his age. That's a bold statement, considering William is rich, handsome, destined to be king - and about the same age as me. But then again, I'm like a lot of young women: the men I should be attracted to rarely interest me. Of course, age alone doesn't make a man sexy. Fact is, right around age 35, men start to fall into two categories: attractive bachelor or pathetic single guy. (Or, if he's married with kids: the Eric Bana set.) The Clooneys and Banas of this world attract the admiring glances of younger women because they've cultivated some of these characteristics. He's experienced, but not fatherly. An older man has sampled enough of life to know how to navigate roadblocks. He has wisdom to share. He's a problem-solver, but doesn't try to solve his lover's troubles. He listens to her, supports her decisions and offers his solutions if - and only if - she asks for them. He's intelligent, yet hip. He discusses the post-modern complexities of Blade Runner and the social implications of punk rock, not the differences between seed and venture capital. He's successful, but not flashy. He's a man who has something to show for his life - a career he's passionate about, a home and relationships. He's invested in the world, financially and figuratively. His success is sexy; it's subtle and speaks for itself. He's in shape and healthy. He exercises and eats heathily, but not just for vanity's sake. He cares about his health and his future and has given up smoking and binge drinking. A man who takes care of himself is capable of taking care of other people - say, future children. He's stylish, but also age-appropriate. This man has developed a classic and unique style that reflects his age and status in life. He knows the value of quality clothing and good tailoring and knows how to spend money well. He would know how to select elegant lingerie for a present. He acknowledges his age, but doesn't focus on it. When he dates a younger woman, it's not because he gets off on the fact that she's 22 and he's 42. He doesn't patronise her with endless conversations about the age difference. He makes me dream about taking him to bed. An older man presumably has had enough sex to figure out exactly what women want in bed. He's polite and discreet; his intentions and ability to follow through on them are telegraphed through a knowing twinkle in his eye. He knows what he wants. He's passed the waffling, what-do-I-do? stage. When he wants a woman, he tells her. And not surprisingly, often gets her. By Lisa Jones Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PP Posted September 3, 2007 Report Share Posted September 3, 2007 I heard it best explained by a Thai BG - "Old man die soon" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BKKanalist Posted September 3, 2007 Report Share Posted September 3, 2007 bust, Lisa is coming off a bit desperate here. Many men prefer either hookers or less complicated relationships. Lisa, on the other hand, seems to want a man who tells her that...and demands she shut her mouth, despite being equal and, of course, intelligent. He demands "say, future children", and aplogizes to Lisa that he cannot endure the pains of pregnancy himself. Bust, with a "knowing twinkle in his eye" you should have sex with Lisa. Be "polite and discreet" and slam her once for me. Make her dream. Use the techniques you refined with countless hours with Thermae's finest, but try to avoid being fatherly. Have an e-mail address for her? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mentors Posted September 3, 2007 Report Share Posted September 3, 2007 What i heard from BGs is, "old man not always boom boom" "old man big money" :thumbup: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mekong Posted September 3, 2007 Report Share Posted September 3, 2007 It reminds me of a friend of mine who at 65 married a 22 year old stunner. I asked him "How Did You Manage that?" He Replied "I told her I was an 85 year old millionaire with a heart condition" (By the way, He is 85 now and she is 42, and they are still together) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Torneyboy Posted September 3, 2007 Report Share Posted September 3, 2007 What i heard from BGs is, "old man not always boom boom" "old man big money" :thumbup: I will go with that...btw i heard Boom boom all the time in Viet Nam ..but never in thailand???? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cavanami Posted September 3, 2007 Report Share Posted September 3, 2007 PI, boom-boom used to mean the lady was pregnant! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Torneyboy Posted September 3, 2007 Report Share Posted September 3, 2007 geez..what a fright that would have given me a few years back.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sayjann Posted September 3, 2007 Report Share Posted September 3, 2007 TB,never heard boom boom in Thailand. he must be old man with no money...... BG's were looking for Hansum men.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wonderlust Posted September 3, 2007 Report Share Posted September 3, 2007 An Indonesian whore told me she preferred old man because "he no have power". I said what if he takes viagra? She said "I change for sleeping pill and take his money". Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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