Guest Posted July 13, 2002 Report Share Posted July 13, 2002 Does that mean you stopped sending Jitty baht? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pattaya127 Posted July 13, 2002 Report Share Posted July 13, 2002 i feel 50/50 about it. maybe one can e-mail a guy asking him if he is interested to hear from a stranger who may have something to divulge, being a frequent visitor to internet cafes, about a girl they know. as said many times before, many guys like to rationalize the "bad" conduct of their GF, and they may not want to hear the real truth after all. An "in your face" revelation might just be too much at one time. Some may appreciate right away, some may freak out their e-mail adress is in some new hands. A Friendly and cautious mail first will put the ball in their court to make the decison to learn more. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pattaya127 Posted July 13, 2002 Report Share Posted July 13, 2002 Now the funny thing is this girl is educated, has a Univ. Degree and speaks excellent english. Who knows for sure but she did say that she had never been a BG before. ------------------------ about giving all the money to the parents. this is not always happening, but when happening, a very normal thing for the girl to do, here, in LOS. Farangs had better understand these girl are often dedicated to the family to the point of forgetting their own welfare, esp. as they have a way (sex) to make up. I am sure if he complains, she will tell him to just send another 20 000 just for her every month, and she will still work in the bars. This one you talk about is way passed redemption, the marriage will fail and she more than likely will sleep around or elope in his country. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pattaya127 Posted July 13, 2002 Report Share Posted July 13, 2002 the market is one thing. Life an another. If i was you, i would not brag and tease others who still have to work. LOS has funny ways to put people face to face with their destiny, and I know one guy who had it all covered, $$ wise, who's now buried back home. It only takes one drunk thai to erase all these good investments. Good luck to you... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pattaya127 Posted July 13, 2002 Report Share Posted July 13, 2002 My gf has a few correspondees and I help her with her mail and they?re quite generous. ----------------------------------- not a bad philosophy of the forces at work, but the philosopher sounds a bit rotten. If I was living in LOS, i would not share my GF with no one, even if that one is only sending money. Maybe i am more sensitive to the stench of rot. You guys seem to deserve each other, unless by GF you mean someone you sleep with from time to time (and use the term because some expats are really proud to tell us they have working BGs as Gfs). Cordially Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bibblies Posted July 13, 2002 Report Share Posted July 13, 2002 It depends, innit? I'm not so impressed with the guy's reasoning. Just because someone has mustered the resources to have come here for a holiday doesn't mean that they're a mature, worldly-wise gentleman. A nasty, more street-wise bar-girl could be ripping an over-nice man to pieces. Regardless of whether you know them or not, if you're in the position where you've read the whole email correspondence between the two, and from that, it's clear that he's a bit of an innocent who's getting himself into terrible financial and/or emotional trouble and that she's doing him some malicious harm, tell him. Wouldn't you want to know? I don't buy this blanket "snitching on the poor little bar-girls" argument, like you're proudly siding with the underdog. It reminds me of the attitude that much of the Labour (socialist) government might have towards shareholders of a company that falls into trouble. I.e. They assume that "shareholders" are all greedy rich people who deserve any pain they might get from fraud and that they can bear this nasty lesson. That's simply not true. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pattaya127 Posted July 13, 2002 Report Share Posted July 13, 2002 The percentage could be somewhere there for 6+ girls, ramps up sharply for 7+ girls, approaching almost 100% with stunners. My little insider knowledge... --------------------------- any insider knowledge stats when "beauty is in the eyes of the beholder"? LOL Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pattaya127 Posted July 13, 2002 Report Share Posted July 13, 2002 A nasty, more street-wise bar-girl could be ripping an over-nice man to pieces. ------------------------------ " brown sugar, you make a grown man cry-y-y..." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cardinalblue Posted July 13, 2002 Report Share Posted July 13, 2002 Pattaya127, I got ticked because all his comments and remarks always air on the side of arrogance and superiority. I have read enogh of his threads throughout many topics and they are always saying the same thing, "my way or it becomes a snide commentary. Tonychang's comment about getting back on the relevant thread was the best advice. So that is what i have done. I really think Orand's soi 33 case is an interesting one. What you are saying is no money is ever enough for the girl to leave the bar because unless she is in love, the "barness mentality"actually resides within her? If that is the case and what you are saying, then the prospects of converting a BG to a regular life and a healthy relationship is practically nil. Do you agree or disagree? Cardinalblue Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bibblies Posted July 14, 2002 Report Share Posted July 14, 2002 You've reminded me that I let that stat get away too easily. Having stayed with a Nana Plaza girl for a solid year, things tend to come out and I know which girls in her bar and around have boyfriends or husbands. Surprisingly few of them have Thai ones, certainly nothing like 80%. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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