MrX Posted February 20, 2004 Report Share Posted February 20, 2004 Having been here a while now a thing that repeatedly bewilders me when confronted by Thailands sex workers and hearing about their children upcountry, and their ex-husbands with minor wives etc is why any sane man would leave such beautiful creatures and who are they leaving them for.....even more beautiful ones!.......it just isn't possible!!!! Does anybody know about this? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
soongmak Posted February 20, 2004 Report Share Posted February 20, 2004 Don't believe everything these women tell you. It is only natural to blame the other party for a break up. Two sides to every story, IMO. Cheers, soongmak Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nervous_Dog Posted February 20, 2004 Report Share Posted February 20, 2004 True, they just get more and more beautiful, and crazy, hence the running! Seriously, a lot of the time the girls are just SILLY! I am amazed at the guys my sister in law throws herself at! You KNOW it will be a disaster Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted February 20, 2004 Report Share Posted February 20, 2004 It's because they are not soulmates. Thai men are very sensitive in this regard and are really looking for someone that they are compatible with on all levels. Unfortunately many Thai women are unscrupulous in their snaring of these sensitive creatures, often trying to lead the man from his natural spiritual path by corrupting him with liquor, gambling and pussy. Fortunately, many Thai men have the strength and integrity of character to get out of these situations and continue their search for that SPECIAL SOMEONE. You have to feel for the poor Thai man who remains caught in the clutches of these incubii and their spawn for 20 years or more. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted February 20, 2004 Report Share Posted February 20, 2004 Hi, Best answer is the grass is always greener. From talking to a number of them, their (Thai guys) idea of the perfect woman is white, blond, and tall. Just the opposite of what we are looking for. I'm not kidding. Many do not see the beauty that we do in their women. HT Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mentors Posted February 21, 2004 Report Share Posted February 21, 2004 rompandadam said:Having been here a while now a thing that repeatedly bewilders me when confronted by Thailands sex workers and hearing about their children upcountry, and their ex-husbands with minor wives etc is why any sane man would leave such beautiful creatures and who are they leaving them for.....even more beautiful ones!.......it just isn't possible!!!! Does anybody know about this? Because most thai men dont want to bear responsibility for a wife and children. These is the point why most married couple dont want to sign their marriage at the district office. Just marry in a temple gives them always a free ticket to leave their girl and children. ...but unfortunately true. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MrX Posted February 21, 2004 Author Report Share Posted February 21, 2004 you can explain many break ups in personal terms certainly you can say there is a fierce selection pressure on sex workers because probably not so many happily married women do sex work and so my impression is distorted no doubt about it, thai men are sensitive souls but it still seems a phenomena how do thai women bring up their sons..are they bringing this on for their daughters? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
buffalo_bill Posted February 21, 2004 Report Share Posted February 21, 2004 Hualompong, I am not sure if there is a difference in behaviour between urban Thai male and rural Thai male. all I can say is whether beautiful or ugly, the rural Thai woman will after a period of maybe 5 years be left by her husband as kind of normal process. From my point of view they are the most rotten bunch of bastards the world has ever created . Maybe except the Red Khmer. I have never heard that any of them did care the least about their offsprings , my girlfriend's ex spent the night in a karaoke bordello when she gave birth to her daughter and so forth. in the road where she lives is not a single "husband " left. I got to know a thousand of these stories in the meantime and tend to think that they do not care if their ladies are pretty or not, they just move on. I doubt by the way if they understand their way of marrying as a concept for a long term relationship. They " marry " with the same ease as they later disappear. BuBi Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted February 21, 2004 Report Share Posted February 21, 2004 Because most thai men dont want to bear responsibility for a wife and children. These is the point why most married couple dont want to sign their marriage at the district office. Just marry in a temple gives them always a free ticket to leave their girl and children. ...but unfortunately true. I think you are absoulutly right.But would you sign a marriage at the district office yourself.think about that! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pattaya127 Posted February 21, 2004 Report Share Posted February 21, 2004 From what I see, Thai men are just like farangs, as far as being in Thailand. they leave them because there are more to shag around. Opposite to that, there are more than a few thais and farangs being lyal to their wives and GFs. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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