Old Hippie Posted January 14, 2007 Report Share Posted January 14, 2007 "...I will tell you that the sex industry is exactly as it says. No matter how you want to dress it up it is a service provided for a fee..." It amazes me how many "experts" forget this fact. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChristianTroy Posted January 14, 2007 Author Report Share Posted January 14, 2007 Has it ver occured to you that there are different constellations? A tourist that enters the bar with starry eyes is a potential customer who disappears after 2 weeks. If she is doing her job right she is getting as much as possible from her customer, that is her job, that is why he comes and that is what we all know! It doesnt say one thing about the girls character or personality! It says that a tourist gets what he is paying for! Now there is a situation like mine, where a guy moved here and has a business here, a guy who needs and wants social contacts and also friends. I am not a customer to them because I dont wanna bang them in the first place. What I can offer is going out together, taking my boat to go fishing, or simply hanging out in front of the TV. Nobody is charging me for that and therefore I assure you that these girls have more to say, more to give then those you get with your own approach. I was told I am a fun guy to go out with and that is the reason why I get treated differently. I don't want to get in their pants even when it happens sometimes but even then it is free of charge. It is exactly the shortsighted view that makes me angry sometimes that people can't see that these girls also have a life before and after they work. They are regular girls who are happy for every contact who treats them better as raw fuck meat and they are happy to have people they can talk about their problems with or simply watch a movie on the couch. So whenever one of you people tells me it is just a service then it is because YOU have choosen to buy the product. There are different approaches and different reactions so please please please stop telling me that all girls are the same money hungry sluts, I asure you they are not, not all of them! Bust gets freebies whenever he wants from farmers daughter, from what I have acknowledged he never payed a satang for sex. She is a hooker for the cowboy but a friend or fuck buddy for him, nothing hookerish about that if my informations are correct she simply enjoys the time with him! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bangkoktraveler Posted January 14, 2007 Report Share Posted January 14, 2007 [color:red] "So whenever one of you people tells me it is just a service then it is because YOU have choosen to buy the product. There are different approaches and different reactions so please please please stop telling me that all girls are the same money hungry sluts, I asure you they are not, not all of them!" [/color] So are you saying that these ladies will provide the service for free. All we have to do is stop providing them with money? What percentage of these ladies would you say are really willing to give it away for free? Would you say almost 99% of them? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Topcatta Posted January 14, 2007 Report Share Posted January 14, 2007 Who cares about the numbers?! That is not the point CT is making. You guys are bittered in rts and/or with TGs or BGs. Your glasses *can* only see shit because of that. Other ppl have different experiences and they are happy about that. Now it is possible that this particular guy is a newbie and falls in a trap. Great warn him! But when you rigidly only offer the same opinion it gets to be a bore to read and you are not doing yourself a service. Especially when you continue to sit on ppls head who live right in the sex scene already for a while, like CT, do you really think you are teaching somebody something? You might have just fallen in love with your anger and you wanna sell that to others. Good luck! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bust Posted January 14, 2007 Report Share Posted January 14, 2007 Now it is possible that this particular guy is a newbie and falls in a trap. Great warn him! TC that is the point. Someones reality can become anothers illusion. Pattaya is not a "sex scene" it is a "sex industry" commerce supply and demand. You ask nearly any girl anywhere in LOS about Pattaya and most will tell you if they go there they can make money. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bangkoktraveler Posted January 15, 2007 Report Share Posted January 15, 2007 [color:red] "You guys are bittered in rts and/or with TGs or BGs." [/color] I don't know where you are getting your 'facts', but I am in a relationship, it is with a Thai and I see BGs for who they are. What CT was describing is BGs who tease men and rarely put out and then turn around and make fun of their customers. Ask yourself, who in their right mind would want to go to such a place? Old Hippie summed it up pretty good:[color:red]""...I will tell you that the sex industry is exactly as it says. No matter how you want to dress it up it is a service provided for a fee...""[/color] The girls are in the business to make money. Anybody who is in business, are in it for the money no matter what kind of business it is. Unfortunately, some of these girls take a little bit more then they should, especially when they drain a farang of all the money they have. Even when some of these farangs take the 11th floor dive, it doesn't bother these girls one bit nor their handlers. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Old Hippie Posted January 15, 2007 Report Share Posted January 15, 2007 "...Old Hippie summed it up pretty good:""...I will tell you that the sex industry is exactly as it says. No matter how you want to dress it up it is a service provided for a fee..."" Actually Bust said that, I just quoted him, and Yes, he is absolutely right. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
panadolsandwich Posted January 15, 2007 Report Share Posted January 15, 2007 Who cares about the numbers?! That is not the point CT is making. You guys are bittered in rts and/or with TGs or BGs. Your glasses *can* only see shit because of that. Other ppl have different experiences and they are happy about that. Now it is possible that this particular guy is a newbie and falls in a trap. Great warn him! But when you rigidly only offer the same opinion it gets to be a bore to read and you are not doing yourself a service. Especially when you continue to sit on ppls head who live right in the sex scene already for a while, like CT, do you really think you are teaching somebody something? You might have just fallen in love with your anger and you wanna sell that to others. Good luck! I think she makes a lot of sense here guys. Not sure why you don't get back to me CT. I guess you're busy putting out fires. Relax a bit - take it easy. I think you're a good guy - a very good guy, but sometimes you come across as too uptight. Take this as good advise = please don't flame me for telling you what you already know. I've learnt so much from your insightful posts. I just think you need to chill a little bit. Sit back, let a cool beer come your way and enshultigung bitte if I offend you! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChristianTroy Posted January 15, 2007 Author Report Share Posted January 15, 2007 In reposne to Bust, OH, BKKT you are talking about the sex industry and I am talking about characters, you fail to see the difference or all 3 of you are ignoring it, I don't know that for a fact, I am just mentioning it! A girl is not the industry, she is a part of it like a factory worker at Toyota is a part of the car industry, when he comes home for dinner he is the private person and that is what you guys ignore or fail to see! BKKT, stop paying for sex and you get it for free, is that what you understood in the entire post of mine? What I was saying is that you have an interest in a particular girl you shouldn't vote her off as a flithy rotten whore, get into it and obviously that punter approach doesn't work in this case. You follow the path that BGs have created for punters to go into the net then you most likely won't have success either. You gotta do something different to see if she is different. If you use the same lines, the same effort as with a hooker you will get a hooker in return! Most likely is it that none of you who have judged them already is really interested in their personality or their real stories, it is very likely that you come her to pay for a service and you are happy with it, if that is the case I suggest you leave it to other people to judge their characters because what you are judging is her profession and I assure you once again that there is a major difference between those two things! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Old Hippie Posted January 15, 2007 Report Share Posted January 15, 2007 YAWN...can the self rightious crap, don't you own a bar and pimp these women? and or a porn sight? Tell me you really care about them and their stories, the real story, not the bullshit they tell to you/us to get more money in sympathy. Where does a pimp who exploits/sells these women get off with this attitude? The way I see it, you need these desparate whores to turn a buck...so don't even begin to judge us, and BTW, it is you who has deliberately confused/mixed the issues whenever anyone disagrees with you, or points out the flaws in your thoughts... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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