mainsail Posted September 26, 2007 Author Report Share Posted September 26, 2007 She had a miscarriage. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
migrant Posted September 27, 2007 Report Share Posted September 27, 2007 Sorry to hear that! It sounded like you were excited. This happened in Thailand? Hope she is well Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CTO Posted September 27, 2007 Report Share Posted September 27, 2007 Likewise, sad to hear, all the best, Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mainsail Posted September 27, 2007 Author Report Share Posted September 27, 2007 Thanks guys. This was the first time in my life that I felt like I wanted to have a child with someone and that it was the right woman. Go figure. Maybe we are a little too late on the biology curve. Sounds like it is going to be difficult for her to get pregnant again according to the doc. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CTO Posted September 28, 2007 Report Share Posted September 28, 2007 Take it as it comes, stress is your worst enemy, my cousin went through the same thing, 5 miscarriages, then 3 perfect kids in a row! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Topcatta Posted October 7, 2007 Report Share Posted October 7, 2007 Jeezzzzzzzzz, sounds like a perfect con (wo)man. 45 and pregnant, you bring yourself and the baby in danger at that age. Plus getting pregnant in 2 months and apparently without telling you she didnt use contraceptives? Isnt that a hook many women use to force men into their arms...?! And then a miscarriage...Conveniently covering up the pregnancy story? Asking for money and tickets in such short notice. She decides in a week to go to LOS and you just get her a ticket straight away? IF this would be REAL LOVE would you be talking about prenubs, etc already after 2 months? Sounds like a great scenario for an exciting movie. Do you really want all this drama in your life? I would love it for you if you did found real love with this lady but man check out ALL the facts including whether pregnancy and miscarriage were real. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mainsail Posted October 10, 2007 Author Report Share Posted October 10, 2007 Yes, I knew she was not using contraceptives. Yes I am sure about the pregnancy, I saw the test myself and witnessed the symptoms myself. Yes, I am sure about the miscarriage. She will be home soon and we are not in a hurry to do anything. We will have a long engagement, perhaps a year. We are not in a hurry and we are going to take our time now. Yes, I paid for her plane ticket to Thailand and now I am ok with that. There is more to the story that I won't go into at this point. I don't get the connection between a prenup and real love. You don't think people in love get a prenup? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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