FAT_AUSSIE Posted February 2, 2008 Report Share Posted February 2, 2008 I can see how you feel Bust, I have to wonder why every time when I see a pointless relationship. Like someone said before "believe 10% of what she says" well I would perhaps believe a little more allthough I agree that Thai ladies like seeking sympathy and tend to create versions of the truth (more-so on the net). I can't understand why this guy if when he does come to LOS goes dinking, whoring and golfing. Seems to be pointless forking out 10K/month to a Thai girl when she does'nt by the sounds of is suit his agenda anyways. Trajic that some TG's will actually stand by her man through thick and thin even when he's not worth shit. I would love to hear from the other half. You never know! FA... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rhodie Posted February 2, 2008 Report Share Posted February 2, 2008 Actually this one speaks the truth.....I know enough about her. She often sends me copies of her msn chats or emails to explain things to her. But I take your point. My one's different! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dumsoda Posted February 3, 2008 Report Share Posted February 3, 2008 My one's different! Somebody once told me that some of them actually are....!!!!!..(Prolly OH...lol...) Wow....fancy that...they're not ALL..."The same".... Hard to believe, really.... Cheers DC Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bust Posted February 3, 2008 Author Report Share Posted February 3, 2008 Actually this one speaks the truth.....I know enough about her. She often sends me copies of her msn chats or emails to explain things to her. But I take your point. My one's different! Did you read back through some old posts to find that line... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Old Hippie Posted February 3, 2008 Report Share Posted February 3, 2008 My one's different! Somebody once told me that some of them actually are....!!!!!..(Prolly OH...lol...) Wow....fancy that...they're not ALL..."The same".... Hard to believe' date=' really.... Cheers DC [/quote'] Regarding Bar girls...there are quite a few exceptions to the rules...same for punters. But in general best to approach with caution and a heavy dose of cynicism. Oh, and a ton of cash. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kamui Posted February 3, 2008 Report Share Posted February 3, 2008 My one's different! Somebody once told me that some of them actually are....!!!!!..(Prolly OH...lol...) Wow....fancy that...they're not ALL..."The same".... Hard to believe' date=' really.... Cheers DC [/quote'] Regarding Bar girls...there are quite a few exceptions to the rules...same for punters. But in general best to approach with caution and a heavy dose of cynicism. Oh, and a ton of cash. I am currently in contact with a BG from Phnom Penh, who in fact is not different. We met a few weeks ago in PP and spent 2-3 days together. She just sent me an mailing address where to send presents for her. When I left PP she already told me that she would like to have a mobile phone with a camera (I just had financed her a use Nokia without a camera). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Old Hippie Posted February 3, 2008 Report Share Posted February 3, 2008 Exactly what I mean, most whores are not different where the end result is concerned, just different in how they get there, and what methods they use. I will also point out that many non whores (as in non overt whores, as in girls not working in the sex industry..."GTGs?") also play the same games. These girls try the same shit with us as the whores do, leading me to ask the question: what is the fucking difference? These girls (whores and "non whores/GTGs") *IN GENERAL* Shit on us, and pull shit with us they would NEVER dream of trying with a Thai guy. Hence my many warnings. And once again, for those who will skip/forget I said it, and accuse me of painting all whores with the same brush, EXCEPTIONS CAN AND DO OCCUR. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kamui Posted February 4, 2008 Report Share Posted February 4, 2008 These girls (whores and "non whores/GTGs") *IN GENERAL* Shit on us, and pull shit with us they would NEVER dream of trying with a Thai guy. Hence my many warnings. Come on, even if you are right you concentrate too much on the dark side. And you always had been kind and *honest* to the girls? How different are men who conceal the wife, the children, the girl friend, the BG which was just fucked an hour ago, e.g. ... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tartempion Posted February 4, 2008 Report Share Posted February 4, 2008 I would believe about 10% of what she said. I have two friends who do the same. One rents a house in Pattaya, pays 10k/month to have a lady living there (she works as a waitress in a restaurant), he spends 6 weeks/year there but manages to arrive "early" in Bangkok to enjoy some gogos on top of that. In europe he fucks around in the meantime and will replace her when she gets too old (over 30 that is) I do hope you believe more than 10% of what I tell ya Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Old Hippie Posted February 4, 2008 Report Share Posted February 4, 2008 These girls (whores and "non whores/GTGs") *IN GENERAL* Shit on us' date=' and pull shit with us they would NEVER dream of trying with a Thai guy. Hence my many warnings. [/quote'] Come on, even if you are right you concentrate too much on the dark side. And you always had been kind and *honest* to the girls? How different are men who conceal the wife, the children, the girl friend, the BG which was just fucked an hour ago, e.g. ... Hmmm...you missed somethings... On the other points, we are talking about prostitution here. A guy goes to a hooker to pay her for sex, she knows that. She knows the odds of him marrying her whatever are not there, she provides a service. He pays for that service. End of story. They are whores, we are punters, neither should blindly trust the other, that is just common sense. To that I will add, people anywhere starting a relationship should be cautious until trust is gained/earned, regardless of the circumstances. Non whores and non punters lie all the time to get laid, nothing new, so be cautious. What is wrong with that line of thinking? "Concentrate too much on the dark side?" Moi? Maybe because experience tells me to do so. Found that out the hard way, Yet, I know several guys who have been burned bad, milked for a bundle, and just go right back down the same road the same way... A girl looking for true love from a bar patron is as pathetic as a punter looking for love from a bar girl, though it can and does happen. Take all the success stories you know, and weigh them against the disasters, what are the numbers? Now go back to other posts where I AGAIN noted exceptions occur, and made claim that the numbers were probably not much different for non sex scene related marriages...facts are most marriages fail, and many can cause financial/emotional disaster to one or both parties, hence my many warnings on the entire subject, regardless of who is marrying who. The problems come from the guys who see a paid fuck as more than it is, and the girls then play the guy. The bullshit games of "...oh I am sick, need money...blah blah..." I love only you etc...all the tantrums etc they pull and all the hyped bullshit drama etc...lies and games they would not dare try with the average Thai guy. The average Thai guy would slap them silly, the average farang would believe them and still send money/marry them etc. Do I treat the girls well? what does that mean? do I buy them flowers and dinner before I fuck them? NO. Am I kind, don't force shit on them, and am I respectful? usually, but so what? There have been times when they try their games, then I am all business and it is "...do as we agreed, or get out with nothing, it is up to you, but I am NOT paying to play by YOUR rules and KISS YOUR ASS!..." I have known girls who don't try shit with me, but I know damned well they are trying it with several other guys. Why do I know? because they tell me, and in many cases I have actually seen it. Been there when one husband leaves, and the new BF arrives, or she introduces me to her husband/BF, having fucked me the night before, or later that night after he leaves. Shit like that. Now I know some guys will say "so what if they do it with others, I go by how they treat me..." Bullshit, if you know someone is a lier and a cheat, and a bullshitter who's husband or BF can't trust them why would you trust them? If you needed a tax account, would you go to the guy at the local prison convicted of embezzlement if he had always been a nice guy to you? Didn't think so, same principle here. Once again, this is sex for money, plain and simple, nothing more. *Should* more come of it, then the best of luck to you/them, but anyone deliberately looking for it in the pay for play scene if just foolish in my book. Now, Please go back and reread where I said there were exceptions. Then read where I said people would forget/not pay attention to the fact that I said this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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