Guest Posted December 5, 2003 Report Share Posted December 5, 2003 Unless one considers that going far away from home to mate corresponds to being inadequate sexually in one's tribe. That is definately the truth. I would only extend sexually to socially. Does not put much shine on LOS punters, though. Why? Maybe it doesn't put much shine on farang women... Best regards Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted December 5, 2003 Report Share Posted December 5, 2003 I believe in multiple partners & obviously allow the GF the same rights even she may not use them fully! I believe in a single partner and ask from my gf that she doesn't cheat neither. Everyone has to know for himself what suits him best. Best regards Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted December 5, 2003 Report Share Posted December 5, 2003 Where does the need to cheat come from? The grass in always greener, and the need for variety. I think is a human nature, including both sexes. So then I am not human! Best regards Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JJsushi Posted December 5, 2003 Author Report Share Posted December 5, 2003 HIGH THAIED said: I always measured her pain, against my 30 minutes of pleasure. It just never seemed worth it. For 30 MINUTES, I wouldn't think it would be worth it either. Add on a couple of more HOURS and the scales tip dramatically I have a Thai g/f now, who wants to marry. Am I ready? I don't know. I'll know when I can be without her, and walk into NEP, and walk out alone. Which I've already been able to do, last visit. If I can do again next also, then I will know. But if I can't, then she will be the first to know. Out of my love, and respect for her. Because if I can't, I will know my true nature, and will protect her from that at all costs. She deserves better. Your NEP test is a mite bit too easy in my book. After all NEP is there for pure sexual contact. Your test doesn't address the girl you meet at a dinner party or after work at a cocktail lounge that has so much in common with you. You know the relationship that starts out as a friendship and before you know it your making out like a couple of porno stars. She knows you have another chick but is willing to wait for you to sort it out. It is easy to turn down pure physical attraction but alot harder to deny those other qualities that bond people. Your example reminds me of other guys I know who have been married faithful for years and then they get to LOS and lose their freaking minds and bed almost every chick that wais them-basically indulging in around the clock sex to make up for all of those years of monogamy. I guess eating cornflakes every morning makes you lose it when someone gives you the Kellogs cereal variety pack. On the other hand I notice guys that were never marrried seem to take everything in stride when they get to LOS and indulge in the scene. The scene is more of a game or strictly recreational. They seem to be more interested in re-creating their favorite porno scenes or looking for a cute someone(or rather that cute someone hooks them). I also notice that the ex-married guys seem more vulnerable to getting hooked by "LOVE" and more importantly committment based love from/to the girls. Now my observations are clearly skewed considering that most of the married-divorced guys are older and the never married are younger. Causing great pain to someone you love, is not a good thing. I think everyone can agree with that. Pain is only caused if they find out. I always wondered what is more painful to a lover, the actual betrayl of trust or the fact that someone else has touched someone that you in a sense possess and that you now view as defiled or tainted? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted December 5, 2003 Report Share Posted December 5, 2003 I always wondered what is more painful to a lover, the actual betrayl of trust or the fact that someone else has touched someone that you in a sense possess and that you now view as defiled or tainted? Because I wouldn't cheat on my gf as long as I love her, I would think that she doesn't love me anymore if she has sex with another guy. So the pain comes from the destroyed illusion that you were loved. Best regards Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
.. Posted December 5, 2003 Report Share Posted December 5, 2003 "Best you can do is act like an Asian Gentleman. Marry a wonderful, smart, beautiful Asian girl, who understands that having a Mia Noi or two, is a healthy thing and that love and sex are different animals. Learn never to embarass either of them and live the life you really want too." Aye, mate. Yau speaka da truth. The last sentece is the key to making the whole thing work. I was told this by both my wife & father-in-law (with whom I share a Narcissus membership :. Cheers, SD Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pattaya127 Posted December 5, 2003 Report Share Posted December 5, 2003 I really don't buy the proof that you offer for your theory and the theory itself is flawed in it's logic. --------------------- Uh.... The theory was actually that men instincts drove them to multiple mating. My answer was no theory or logic, just basic facts, that i find corroborated in your post, namely that society and culture build up fears, interdicts, morals, laws, etc... overriding instincts. So that it's not so much "if" prositution was legit back home, but that it factually is not ofr whatever uninstinctual reasons..... In other words the instinct is not "watered down" it is repressed or supressed(whichever your view is). --------------------------- yes, any word is ok, or complementary. Your argument only addresses "frequency" not desire, intent, incentive or environment. ------------------------------- i was saying that a trip to LOS for sex has more to do with culture and the promise of pleasures than instinct. The instinst is there, no doubt, but just as any other instincts we all have. Nothing that over-riding like seasonal mating in a carnivorous animal. PS: did not understand the tiger vs punter in heat question... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pattaya127 Posted December 5, 2003 Report Share Posted December 5, 2003 Why? Maybe it doesn't put much shine on farang women... ----------------------- only if the number of farang guys going to LOS is overwhelming, compared to the guys who stay home or travel without making the trip their only "mating" time in the year. I think for ex. there is only maybe 100 000 US guys going to LOS, could be 200 000, but compared to the adult male population, not much. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted December 5, 2003 Report Share Posted December 5, 2003 [color:"blue"] I was told this by both my wife & father-in-law (with whom I share a Narcissus membership ). [/color] A man of my own ilk, I fear. :hubba: Hope we can share a libation when I arrive in a few days. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shygye Posted December 6, 2003 Report Share Posted December 6, 2003 [color:"green"] I was told this by both my wife & father-in-law (with whom I share a Narcissus membership ). [/color] Does your wife have a younger sister? :hubba: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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