JJsushi Posted October 26, 2002 Report Share Posted October 26, 2002 A good BG is one that satisfies her customers and performs her functions with a professional attitude. Preferrably one hat takes pride in her work. A good woman well now that is a whole other ball of wax. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted October 27, 2002 Report Share Posted October 27, 2002 ... and one who hopefully gets out with the least emotional and physical damage possible, transits into a normal life then a lot richer than she started off. so few though... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bibblies Posted October 27, 2002 Report Share Posted October 27, 2002 What is a good BG? One who takes it up the jacksi? (Come on Yehtmae/Fiery Jack/SiLeakHunt - I can't believe I had to do this myself.) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted October 27, 2002 Report Share Posted October 27, 2002 Hi sad1960, I've made it very clear in my posts I am talking about some b/g's, and not inclusive of them all. HT Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phoenix Posted October 27, 2002 Report Share Posted October 27, 2002 HT >Their labido is very hightened. Use it, or lose it. These girls use it. The point is I'm wondering how much of thier sex drive comes into play here. Seems like a Thai bar girl just cannot be faithful. Maybe it's not all about the money. Maybe after a while they actually need the sex and excitment, and can't help themselves from screwing other men. They've tasted the forbidden fruit, and like it. < i've sometimes wondered about that, too. Nok used to sometimes exhaust me, wanting it 3 or 4 times per day, and not taking no for an answer. I eventually put that down to her wanting to keep me drained and satisfied, so I wouldn't stray. But I think she actually wanted it for herself most of the time, almost like needing it. Maybe one of the few things in life she could depend on on making herself feel 'good' for a short while. Antoher ex BG I knew here in my country, had extremely high libido, several BF parallel to each other, would go and F..K herself silly with one, then an hour later go see the other and do the same again. She said to me more than once "I love sex, i could do it all day!" And sometimes she did! Sometimes, she'd be sick of herself, and pride herself of not having done it for a few days, almost admitting the addictive aspect. I think maybe it relates to an emptyness within, and the need to be loved, cared for. maybe we and them are not all that different. I think many of us go there to ostensibly F..k our brains out, (e.g. indulge in lots of sex) but maybe are really looking for something else, wanting to be reasured that someone loves us, even if it is merely someone we pay to pretend it. Maybe that explains why the 'girlfriend treatment' works so well. In farangland, very few sane men would consider establishing an relationship with a prostitute, let alonew living with them, or marrying them. But in farangland, the prostitutes mainly deal with basic physical sex, get it off and get away. Maybe Thai sexworkers are simply a lot more perceptiven and better businesswomen. This overlaps with another thread, I'll try and find it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phoenix Posted October 27, 2002 Report Share Posted October 27, 2002 HT >Sex is an addictive drug. Ultimatly, it is the greatest pleasure given to us, so we are naturaly driven to it. If this has any validity, it would explain a lot, concerning a B/G's seemingly inability to be with only one man.< My previous response was befoee I read this. Yes I agree with you totally. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thalenoi Posted October 27, 2002 Report Share Posted October 27, 2002 Says phoenix: Maybe that explains why the 'girlfriend treatment' works so well. In farangland, very few sane men would consider establishing an relationship with a prostitute, let alonew living with them, or marrying them. But in farangland, the prostitutes mainly deal with basic physical sex, get it off and get away. Maybe Thai sexworkers are simply a lot more perceptiven and better businesswomen. This overlaps with another thread, I'll try and find it. We are getting close to some answers here. Long time ago I lived a few months in something similar to a guesthouse ("residential") in Lisboa, Portugal. Most of the "residents" where prostitutes and I spent much of my time with some of them, offering a drink and having a chat. It were fascinating times. They were all criminals, thiefs, heroin addicted, living in the dark side of society. They explained me what their lives were made of, no respect whatsover for males or colleagues alike. Victor Hugo would have classified them under "miserables". They spent the shortest time possible with a customer (average 15 minutes in st hotel) and if they managed to steal some money from the guys wallet, the better. They also explained how they robbed guys in the bars and they showed me where and how to buy drugs. Miserable life indeed. I never met one Thai bg who resembled in anyway close to their portugese counterpart. (altough we know many are on drugs) There is more to the Thai BG than that, the fact that "sex for pleasure" is a sin for all monotheistic religions is something Thai society does not seem to suffer from. From what I have learned, the motivation for Thai females to get into the trade is also totally different: they are convinced they will find a nice farang who will take them out of poverty. Their objective in life and "job" is not similar to the western prostiute, that makes a huge difference, together with the cultural differences we have problems understanding. I know of all the comments saying "they don't live in poverty" and "easy money, easy life" it's all relative, isn't? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted October 28, 2002 Report Share Posted October 28, 2002 You made it clear after my answer to your post. Not on the post I was answering you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted October 28, 2002 Report Share Posted October 28, 2002 >From what I have learned, the motivation for Thai females to get into the trade is also totally different: they are convinced they will find a nice farang who will take them out of poverty. Their objective in life and "job" is not similar to the western prostiute, that makes a huge difference, together with the cultural differences we have problems understanding.< there are those, and there are the others as well... there are so many reasons, motivations to enter the trade here in thailand that i think you can't just put them in one group together. we are dealing with humans here, and in the nightlife you have all shades of grey represented as much as in any other human society. in all my years here i have met all sorts, from the drugaddicted wreck who still picks up some down and out farang, supports him with food, gives him shelter until he gets better without any other thought than helping someone with tougher luck than herself up to the coldhearted bitch who steals and cheats her way through, even stabs her friends in the back if there is some advantage. all is out there... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted October 28, 2002 Report Share Posted October 28, 2002 Some of these girls have huge sexual appitites, which goes against the grain of much what is written here This is an extremely interesting topic that deserves it's own thread. A few random thoughts from my own experience: BG's either learn to like the sex of they get out of the business. I've met plenty of new girls not used to going with stangers and they don't enjoy the experience too much, where as most of the more experienced ones clearly are more than tolerating the experience. I also know plenty of girls that won't go with men that they don't find appealing, especially if they are very good looking themselves. I usually make an effort to be a decent lover, expecially if I'm with someone for a while, and I find that my efforts are paid back multi-fold. One of my ex-BG gf's was more into porn that any other girl I've met. She loved to sit and look at porn picure with my while we talked about it - who was good looking, etc.... And she liked to watch hard-core porn while we had sex. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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