Nervous_Dog Posted June 16, 2006 Report Share Posted June 16, 2006 Geee, heart wrenching Drogon, I've written probably a number of letters like that, thankfully I stopped when I was in my mid 30's, Good luck, but we both know it's not the end of the story is it? Your waiting, your hoping, your wishing at 2am at night when you know she's in bed with someone else and your lying in bed alone that you'll find someway to make her realise your the man for her and she;ll love you and you'll all live happilly ever after. Don't worry, in a year you'll stop thinking of her daily, in 3 years you'll only think of her weekly, maybe monthly, in 5 years you'll laugh at yourself DOG Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
drogon Posted June 16, 2006 Author Report Share Posted June 16, 2006 I never stopped writing these type of letters as I am forever young...... (sadly not true) Will have to drink and butterfly like mad.......just not to think about that. If anybody who is in Thailand in July sees an eurasian man in his thirties, drinking and looking at himself in the glass in a bar it will be me........ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nervous_Dog Posted June 16, 2006 Report Share Posted June 16, 2006 But is the glass half full or empty grasshopper? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mekong Posted June 16, 2006 Report Share Posted June 16, 2006 An optimist Says it is Half Full A Pessemist declares it half empty An Engineer will tell you that it is 200% of the size it needs to be! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChristianTroy Posted June 16, 2006 Report Share Posted June 16, 2006 I admit it doesn't happen too many times, I agree with ND 100% These letters you write when your hearts got a little scratch and when you are full of hope! It really stops when you are a little over 30. It stopped for me when I was emotionally over the girl and I re-read what I wrote, it gave me the goose bumps because I found it very awful afterwards (judging myself not you) Drogon, if you ever had a chance you now blew it! You are saying it is over but it isn't. If it is over you give yourself time to forget, which means no emails, no phone calls, no nothing at all. How could you possibly be able to get over her? ND is right, you are hoping for a reaction here which is absolutely natural, it is the desperate attempt to make her wake up. Actually you are trying to manipulate her a little bit and you try to force her into a decision right here and now. Manipulate is a bad word I know, you'll be forgiven considering your emotional state! You just showed her that it is very easy to loose you when things don't go your way. BELIEVE ME She is not going to fight for you now, even if she would be hurt like mad right now she would never ever show you this and we all know this is waht you really wanted to achive with this letter! "I know you will not be heartbroken reading this, I will stay just a customer for you as I have not many qualities for you to be something else." You know you are a decent guy and you are djai dee! What you want to hear is that she is hurt and that you have a lot of qualities, isn't that so? Never make yourself too little! I am sure you are a good guy, just a little dreamy! The right way would have been to tell her how you really feel and to tell her that if the trust issues are really the only thing that bother her, you will come back in july and proof to her that you are the right choice! If there is more than just the trust issues and she is so honest as you say I would have asked her straight! In this letter you have made your self smaller than you are, you kinda told her you aren't good enough for her. If you don't believe in yourself how could she??? Maybe you choose not to take RT advice from CT since he has 3 shattered RTs in 9 months, here is the news, all 3 girls still love me, they still send me SMS everyday, they still tell me that they love me they still tell me that they miss me and I do nothing to cause this! If the "almighty" people on this board would be right, none of this would happen! Mrs Troy#2 was crazy enough to get a tatoo on her shoulder with my real name, after just 2 weeks of dating! #1 quit working bar and I didn't give her any money, before she stayed 2 weeks for free. I guess somehow I know the right words, because I am definately not Brad Pitt. None of these girls could give me what I really want in the long run, neither could I give them what they want, so i decided not to steal more of their time! Fair enough IMO. I am a happy camper, I am not miserable, you are mistaken if you think that! The "almighty" on this board just like to bash people because they can't deal with their own stuff, if they were so happy as they claim and if they had a valid point they could post it without trying to insult another character on this board. They just stirring the pot. Just don't give a shit Drogon! The reason why I answer you all the times and share my personal experiences with you is because I can see myself in your posts when I was 26-30 which is only a few years ago, this is the time where you learn a lot. I really feel your pain and I believe you are a good guy! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
drogon Posted June 16, 2006 Author Report Share Posted June 16, 2006 You are right and you are wrong. I already received quite a few mails/messages but did not answer. I know this type of letter is childish but I will probably never stop writting them. Take advise from you? Why not but in this case the "planned divorce" thought is a NO no for me. You are wrong: in thinking that I wanted her to react. You are also wrong: I know she thinks I am a good guy, good looking and have many qualities, BUT she also acknowledges feeling no passion for me. And for me, even if I do not believe in love at first sight, there must be a little something at the begining of a RT. Even if i desperatly want her, I will engage in a long terme relation which would just a very long LT exchange....... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Topcatta Posted June 17, 2006 Report Share Posted June 17, 2006 From my own experience I can say love at first sight does exist. And it is only getting stronger! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted June 18, 2006 Report Share Posted June 18, 2006 drogon said:Greetings. Never thought it would happen to me (although I knew it could) Reading a Bangkok nightlife board I read a post where the OP went to a certain bar in BKK and......was very proud to have f**** my possible/would be GF. Now let me state that: - she is a prostitute, even if not working in NEP/SC/PP etc.... she goes an average 8-10 times/month with customers and I suppose most of them do not barfine her to play cards. - As I do not sponsor her it is quite normal that she does her job. What amazes me, is the fact that this man is obviously too rich and too stupid, not because he f*** her, but more because he is a hardcore punter too full of money. Now, when we meet a new woman, we usually (in the west) do not talk about ex girlfriends/boyfriends etc..... The point is, I know she is a whore (even if she is quite a few lvl up her sisters in NEP/SC) so she does her job but I never imagined reading about her on an internet board. Life is strange sometimes. PS: Seems that reality can sometimes smash you in the face, as you know she is whoring but you behave like if you did not until.... Will never happen as, like the old saying goes, I pay them to go away. GF does not = BG and BG will never = GF. There is a hooker review site in the US called TER for short. I can't even imagine blurring the lines with an escort and starting to think of her as a GF and then reading about the 40 or 50 other guys who have rented the same hole. Mind boggling. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MaiLuk Posted June 18, 2006 Report Share Posted June 18, 2006 What about your non-hooker good girl worthy of marriage who gave it up to 40 or 50 guys for free because because just wanted dick? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MaiLuk Posted June 18, 2006 Report Share Posted June 18, 2006 Well mailuk let me explain. If a girl gets paid for sex that is bad bad bad but if she goes to a club and meets and fucks a guy for free that is ok. Mind boggling innit? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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