drogon Posted June 14, 2006 Author Report Share Posted June 14, 2006 The reasons? I really want to do it. About failure? Will maybe or not. I will just loose some more illusions if she says no and a bit of money. She is honnest in every of her message or email till now. (too honnest so sometimes it can hurt a bit) It is just a matter of yes or no about the conditions. If she says yes to a long term RT I know she will do accordingly. only difficulty is for her to say yes as on my side I will offer everything I can. To trust me is the biggest deal on her part as I trust her definetly. You know all thai women or BG are not cheating rats. I found my gem but am I her future? This is the only question Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChristianTroy Posted June 14, 2006 Report Share Posted June 14, 2006 drogon said:She is honnest in every of her message or email till now. (too honnest so sometimes it can hurt a bit) I would be intersted to hear some examples to get an impression about her. All we got is your point of view! If it's too private don't post it! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
drogon Posted June 15, 2006 Author Report Share Posted June 15, 2006 K First: she never asked or talked about money I had to give/pay her even in a disguised way. All of the stuff stickman found was true. (why did I hire his services? i did not doubt about what she told me but I wanted to have another opinion about her) Here are some parts of her mails or messages. ---------------------------------------------- I am still fine ok with everything here in thailand but i have never been out of thailand before. i used to stay with my ex-boyfriend before and after broke with him i sad too much so when i come back and join at the bar at this time if i am not really sure with that man and all the security things in my life and my future then i would not go out and live with that man so easy like as before again! I think my answer would not make you upset on me too much and i can wait for youe return in july but will you really want to come or not!! ------------------------ I have no party on my birthday as i was young, my family didn't not have any party at all cause we were so poor so i do not realise how important of it until my ex-boyfriend made me think of the important of it by the way, it is just another day for me and that is all! --------------------- I have two of my brothers help me send money to mom but their salary is just only a little bit so i am the onw who can give her the most salary. ------------------- How much do you give to your aunt (if I am right) for the rent? -i give the rent for aunty 5000baht and i give to maid 2000-3000 baht for cleaning my room and clothes. >- What amount do you usually give to your family on a monthly basis? -salary for mom is 7000baht and sometimes i buy her gift and etc.. >- Do your other family members work and in which job please? mom has 8 childrens and i am the last one. all of childrens are seperate in different ways so me work for bar, one brother work as a computer in puket, one of brother work for japan factory in nonthaburi province. ------------------------ To get the heart of mine for every man or customers is not that so easy. i do like you but to try to get my heart you have to take my time and don't rush me then i will become too scared and will run away from you. As i always stay alone and quite used to it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AF16 Posted June 15, 2006 Report Share Posted June 15, 2006 I think you will regrett posting those e-mails. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
drogon Posted June 15, 2006 Author Report Share Posted June 15, 2006 Why? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WorldFun Posted June 15, 2006 Report Share Posted June 15, 2006 She sounds like a nice girl alright from those email lines & it sounds like she's quite keen on her single status after being burned by another farang. So yeah its really tricky, but money for sure ain't gonna heal her trust issue. Wonder what makes her qustion your intention to visit next in july? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
drogon Posted June 15, 2006 Author Report Share Posted June 15, 2006 Because she is not sure I am happy with one of her email. to make it short: this email was about her expectations in life and she told me what she expected from someone who would like to make her live with him...... she was honnest but in this one she was not sure if I would not say "ok we have no future". luckily for me I am ready to meet quite a few of her security expectations (remeber she got burnt by her ex boyfriend) but maybe not all. and no it is not about gold digging. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WorldFun Posted June 15, 2006 Report Share Posted June 15, 2006 have you discussed what she'd do with her life if she we're to stay with you in belgium or around asia? thats one of the main problems where RT may fail or strive depending on planning, expectations & luck Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChristianTroy Posted June 15, 2006 Report Share Posted June 15, 2006 AF16 said:I think you will regrett posting those e-mails. anyone whos going to bash im for posting this email extracts should think twice! That's not the time for beeing cynical or supercool. I hope AF is at least for once not right! Drogon it doesn't sound bad at all! Do you think she is writing these emails all alone or is someone helping her at the internet cafe? These trust issues could be hard to get over with! That's gonna require a lot of patience. That WILL hurt you sometimes and the terrible thing is that you can't show her that! This topic is the only one in a Thai - Farang relationship where i could write 3 books about it. Be patient and try to understand her, even when you do something great for her she might blame you for no reason, don't ignore it and don't smile in a situation like that, try to understand it and talk it out! (I always had to giggle coz I thought she is joking, since it was so ridiculous and pathetic) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nervous_Dog Posted June 15, 2006 Report Share Posted June 15, 2006 OK -your giving herr 150K presents, her mum gets 7K a month (Teachers get about the same) My maid I pay 5000 a month, she has a maid and pays her 2 - 3000! FARK She pays 5000 rent, what the fuck, most girls pay half or less than that! Your being scammed mate, sorry, someone has to say it! If she wants to leave you, then 20K would be a LOT more than enough, 10K would be fine, however 30 - 40 K a month, your mad, and your buying her, this is a purely financial transaction on her side. DOG Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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