ChristianTroy Posted June 16, 2006 Report Share Posted June 16, 2006 I know it will piss the usual suspects off but someone should say it! MooNoi has obviously his doubts because he doesn't wanna jeopardize his friendship. Based on farang thinking! He, the farang, knows that after this arrangement the relationship to his friend will never be the same! Some other guys say that it would be okay to thai customs, it wouldn't be unusaual! He would still jeopardize the friendship which is obviously important to him! Here is my point of critique: Farangs can't just pick the jelly beans from the thai standards when it involves fucking a girl or sanuk. MooNoi comes here with some doubts and shows some morals, it is likely that he could fall for the girl, at least he made it very clear he don't want to loose her as a friend, now since it sounds like an bar gain arrangement and it is okay to the thai way of thinking, all of a sudden it is okay to ignore that fact that this relationship will never be the same as before. Let someone else be her 'fuck buddy' and let a girl who already is a hooker take care of your sexual needs!!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JJsushi Posted June 17, 2006 Report Share Posted June 17, 2006 MooNoi said:So should I or shouldn't I? Only u really know what you want and are willing to do Her family are generally upper-middle-class Thai, and definitely not hi-so. (Dad drives a Toyota, not a BMW or a Benz). She told me last week she's sick of having "no money" and wants to earn some. But she doesn't want to moonlight in a gogo, bar beer, freelancer joint or massage parlour. Fair enough. I understand that. Sounds like lower middle class or cash poor middle class. Your probably are misreading their financial situation. A upper middle class or any uni educated Thai girl would not consider moonlighting in gogo bars or massage parlours too scary, too obvious and a real job. They usually go the route of escort services, freelancers or sponsorship. She has also told me that she doesn't want a boyfriend or be committed to anyone as now "is not the right time". But she also told me that she enjoys sex every now and then (as we mostly do!), and if I take care of her "a little bit" every month, then she will do it. I guess that would make me a "gik". I asked her what the story was, and she said that if I give her 8000 baht every month, she will come and stay at my apartment once a week and have sex and stay overnight. She said she still wants to go out as we've been doing and do social stuff together. She said that she needs money to help put her through uni, (her Dad pays for most of it), but I think it is more that she likes a social lifestyle and going out to decent places, so needs the money to fund that lifestyle. Hint, hint she wants you to commit to a semi form of friendly sponsorship where ur basically providing her with shopping money. She is not trying to be a hardcore hooker, she just wants someone she likes to hang with to kick her some cash, in return for some fringe benefits. But I wonder the following: 1) Does she not value our friendship by offering to sleep with me for money, instead of the fact that she just wants to because she likes me? 2) Will it spoil our friendship if we start sleeping together? 3) What if we start having sex, and I fall in love with her? Could be well on the cards once things start getting intimate. 4) Is it degrading for me to give her money in return for sex when she's not working as a hooker? Or is she? If you take money for sex, does that make you a prostitute? (What's the difference between a "good girl" who goes to a pub and gets guys to buy her drinks all night and then sleeps with him?) 5) Could it lead her "down the path" to eventually working in a gogo or somewhere similar? (Where she would make VERY good money I'd imagine, as, being Chinese-Thai, does not look like your average Isaan BG). Anyone been in a similar situation? And how did you handle it? Any advice much appreciate. Cheers! MooNoi Your thinking too much and with way too many "moral" associations. She has already labeled you as a potential sponsor and your not the only one at that. In 18 months if u haven't tapped that ass for free then you won't. Passionate or puppy dog romance ain't going to happen. So u can either pay her for some ass or just hang out the way u used too. She has already made her choice as to what way she is willing to earn extra cash, u don't need to worry about which direction she is going in. Go along for the ride or bail now. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Old Hippie Posted June 17, 2006 Report Share Posted June 17, 2006 But paying her, may not really be a guarantee of tapping that ass...the promise of "ass for cash" may be the lure/lore here...she can promise all she wants, but delivery is another thing! I would request a free sample... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nervous_Dog Posted June 17, 2006 Report Share Posted June 17, 2006 Agree with JJ, stop thinking and bang her, afterwards give her some money to buy a present for herself as your too busy tooo Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Old Hippie Posted June 17, 2006 Report Share Posted June 17, 2006 She is using the promise of pussy to get money, so why not use the promise of money to get pussy...? have some fun, and maybe teach the whore a lesson in the process... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
buddha Posted June 17, 2006 Report Share Posted June 17, 2006 Agree with JJ, and nervous dog, stop thinking and bang her... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Old Hippie Posted June 17, 2006 Report Share Posted June 17, 2006 I agree, bang her! but have fun playing her, as she is trying to play you... FREE SAMPLE! :onfire: :onfire: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
surebet Posted June 19, 2006 Report Share Posted June 19, 2006 MooNoi, Bugger all that, I haven?t had a f*** in 2 months here in ozzy, I would jump at the chance that you have, a gfe in its purest form. Put her on the payroll, enjoy it while you can, you?ll probably get tired of her after a few months anyway and you?ll go find another uni girl. All power to you! If you?re worried about falling in love (when you havn't had sex yet) then your not, it's a mind game to keep you hooked. On the other hand the ?freebees? that don?t give a shit about money, passport, etc. and you got it going on----> Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Old Hippie Posted June 19, 2006 Report Share Posted June 19, 2006 "...Could it lead her "down the path" to eventually working in a gogo or somewhere similar? (Where she would make VERY good money I'd imagine, as, being Chinese-Thai, does not look like your average Isaan BG)..." Might not lead herinto a gogo, but it will give her a life style she will not be able to maintain on a regular salary, hence, she will become dependent on the extra income to get by...and that has it's own problems...similar to those faced by bar girls... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
surebet Posted June 19, 2006 Report Share Posted June 19, 2006 Old Hippie said:"...Could it lead her "down the path" to eventually working in a gogo or somewhere similar? (Where she would make VERY good money I'd imagine, as, being Chinese-Thai, does not look like your average Isaan BG)..." Might not lead herinto a gogo, but it will give her a life style she will not be able to maintain on a regular salary, hence, she will become dependent on the extra income to get by...and that has it's own problems...similar to those faced by bar girls... Thats like saying pot is a gateway drug, or mongering leads to peversion for example. The whole idea came from the girl - means that she wants it and is responsible for her actions. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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