cavanami Posted June 24, 2007 Report Share Posted June 24, 2007 Just saw my "tee rak". She miss me too mutt...yeah, right :grin: 10 seconds later, she was grabbing some punter's Mr. Happy...WTF Good thing I have a heart of stone!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
torrenova Posted June 24, 2007 Report Share Posted June 24, 2007 If she goes home, she may fall in with a Thai guy as she will have sponsorship money and you know how Thai guys love "borrowing" money from the girls and investing it in whisky ! She may, just may, stay at home with mama but you would need a real insight into her life. All the reasons why she came to Pattaya, how much you think she earns (not what she says), then deduct the extra Pattaya costs (food, rent, mobile etc.) and all the rest. She'd have to have a landline installed wihch was ring in only (or another bill to pay). Any refusal, she's history. Have her work for someone like me and not get barfined, just collect salary, tips, LDs and some cash from the sponsor. Apart from her after work activities, she would be "monitored". However, she is in Pattaya and I know a shit load of jobs which will pay Bt12k or more including tips. They are mainly working as waitresses. If she speaks enough english and is presentable, then an office job is not out of the question. But, and it is a big but, she is not prepared to do an "honest" job simply because she does not do one now. If she really needs the big money then sponsorship is not the answer as there is a bigger problem in her family's finances. If she just does it to "have" money, then you are doomed as she is likely lazy, wants the late nights and the easy cash. So what is she willing to put into this potential relationship above her pussy ? Not a lot it seems. She has to ante up a little more, cut her cloth and get a regular job (or non "working" job anyway). Remember how much you spend when you are on holiday compared to working ? Well the same applies, she will spend more if she doesn't work. She needs something to occupy her time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Old Hippie Posted June 24, 2007 Report Share Posted June 24, 2007 If a relationship develops between a whore and punter, then fine, but to deliberately go looking for one is just plain stupid in my book. Most Sensible Quote of the Day. Maybe Most Sensible Quote of the Month. :thumbup: Oh, sorry about that! Seriously, last trip, I ran into a friends "girl friend" the one who supposedly hated working, wanted out, and was going to rely on him to do so...she had, according to him, quit. I walked into her bar, one of my favorites, and there she was, rubbing some guys dick, and having drinks, they did leave together. She did tell a mutual friend that she has NO intention of quitting, or marrying this guy. She thinks he is just being stupid, and as long as he is, she will capitalize on it...she likes him compared to other CUSTOMERS, but, at the end of the day, he is just that, a CUSTOMER. and SHE HAS OTHERS! More importantly, she has others who pay more. To me, these girls sell illusion, the idea being that they "really do love only you..." if you know a girl lies for a living, says "I love only you" to any guy who pays her bar fine, why trust her when she says she is telling you the truth? Once again for the new guys, or those who may have forgotten it "NEVER FORGET THIS IS ALL JUST BUSINESS...a whore you pay to fuck on holiday, IS NOT your girl friend..." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rchapstick Posted June 24, 2007 Report Share Posted June 24, 2007 I think punters need to reinvnet the whole sponsorship idea. Let's take a hint from NASCAR and Euro soccer, and plaster logos and tattoos over them in exchange for baht. For example, a "mercy barfine" might warrent one of those kiddie Tat's that wash off in a day or two. Paying for a new Buffalo gets you a henna tat on the arm. 10k baht a month gets you a nice permenant tat on the arse. 25k baht and a motocy gets you tats on the arse, boobs, and one other location of your choice. And by the way, I think punters should have the option of reselling these spots to corporate partners. Beer, condoms, Viagra, or perhaps a "Subway ... Eat Fresh" tat next to the muff would all make sense. This would help to defray the cost of your "subsidy". There is a new business venture in this somehow. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cavanami Posted June 25, 2007 Report Share Posted June 25, 2007 Like my buddy Big Al told another friend, as only he can do in his "sensitive" manner... Hey, wake up! Your "girlfriend" is a whore. You stop giving her money and she will go away!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Palatkik Posted June 25, 2007 Report Share Posted June 25, 2007 Outside of Asia, most farangs would say "you're nuts" falling in love with a hooker Inside Asia as well. Many foreigners visiting LOS never see further than the whore houses and Go-Go's that surround them and over time loose touch with reality. If your friend cannot stand the heat... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Old Hippie Posted June 25, 2007 Report Share Posted June 25, 2007 I have recently changed my position on all of this. In the past, I said "...don't tell the fool he is being played, he will resent you for it, especially if it works out..." Now, I do feel a need to tell the guy he is being an idiot, and should rethink what he is thinking of doing...(in my friends case, dumping his wife and marrying this whore, or at the very least, end up giving her truck loads of cash only to made a fool or, or worse yet, having his wife catch him, divorce him, take all his money, and leave him with nothing, not even the whore...) True, he may resent you/me, but the bottom line is simple, I cannot/will not sit by and watch some guy be made a fool of, full well knowing what is going on. If I saw a person in the path of a speeding car, I would warn them, if I knew a person was unwittingly about to drink poison, I would say stop. So, same same here, as I consider all this to be potentially dangerous. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
torrenova Posted June 25, 2007 Report Share Posted June 25, 2007 I think (correct me if I'm wrong) that I've nearly always answered that I would tell someone I knew whether he was getting taken for a ride. Whilst it is hard, I think it is the fairest and most honest thing to do. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Old Hippie Posted June 25, 2007 Report Share Posted June 25, 2007 Yes, I believe you have, and I think I may have disagreed at times, I am now saying I was wrong for that. I have changed my mind 100% on the matter. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nervous_Dog Posted June 26, 2007 Report Share Posted June 26, 2007 Nah, it's not the same as a speeding car or drinking poison. In those cases you will be thanked! In this case you'll get blamed when the idiot who obviously isn't thinking smart blames you for interfering. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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